In the winter of 1990, I spent six weeks traveling in the canyons of Utah and the redwoods of California with a dog, car and oh yeah, a boyfriend. The following year, we bought a small pop up trailer that we towed with a VW Golf and traveled to Ashville NC, Charleston, Okeefanokee Swamp, Edisto Island in Georgia and landed at Mardi Gras in New Orleans just by luck. I was hooked. For the past 25 years I've been wanting to do this again, but one thing or the other made it just not feel like the "right time." So now it is. Me, dog, car. No boyfriend.

Friday, October 6, 2017

Van envy, cats, dogs, and a minimalist materialist

It's been a very active week in my driveway!



Three boondockers have been my guests.

Here they are!

I met David at "The Slabs" in California last year. He's a retired potter, gardener and martial arts teacher. 

If you don't know what the Slabs are, check the link out below. It's a truly wild place. 



While I was boondocking at the Slabs, David wandered over to me at dusk as I was struggling with a sandstorm, high winds and my solar panel that was taking a beating. He offered me some stew that he had cooked in his car. I'm like ---

"WHAT?? I'm busy here!!" I didn't actually say that but I thought it and I said "no thank you." And who is this weirdo anyway offering me food? 

Then I thought that was not very neighborly.......... and........... I'm just as much of a weirdo..............so I wandered over and sure enough, he was cooking stew in his car. And it turned out it was very good.

David came to stay for a few days in Norwalk this past week while visiting his daughter in the city. And he stayed in my driveway in his Prius.



David's Prius



David's "kitchen"

David is a self proclaimed "minimalist materialist". He loves his toys. He has a motorized folding bike and a pizza oven that all live inside of his car with him. Which by the way is also the ONLY place he lives, sleeps and yes, cooks. 

Needless to say David gets some attention when he drags these gadgets out.

AND it just so happened that journalist Jessica Bruder, author of the new book "Nomadland" came to speak at the Westport CT Library, my home town and residence to some of the wealthiest people in America.  And "Nomadland" is about folks who take to the road to make ends meet. 

David was mentioned in her book, and was there in the audience.
Putting two and two together,  she invited 50 Westport people to come out of their lovely library and take at look at his car and his toys in the parking lot. 

It was a bizarre moment............Westport elite ........car dwelling, uh..........

People seemed interested, intrigued and also turned completely off. "Not my cup of tea" I heard in a thick New York accent. Probably not most of their cups of tea.

David mused "I think I'm kind of materialistic."  So I'm dubbing him a minimalist materialist. He has to get rid of one thing to have another. He can't "collect" stuff. But he likes gadgets that serve his lifestyle and have a cool factor.

David's folding motorized bicycle. This is his sleeping companion. Not terribly cuddly.



David setting up his wood fired pizza oven that he can make cauliflower crust pizza in for his guests.

The next guest was Rachael who showed up in what was once my true love, a RIALTA van camper that I coveted back in the 1990's. It has a Volkswagon engine and got really good gas mileage for the time (about 23 MPG). Now a days, vans can get close to 20 with the newer technology, but back then that was about double what you' d expect a camper to get. 


Rachael is a part timer who lives in Cincinnati, was returning from a Rialta rally, an travels with not one cat, but TWO cats AND TWO DOGS in a 17 foot van!

She cooked us Cincinnati Chili (which has something to do with spaghetti, beans, cheese and other options) for dinner. 

No one thinks they can travel like this with cats. She says "they love it." Well, maybe they don't hate it.  In any case cause they looked pretty chill!





The downside of having so many pets with you is that you really can't leave them for extended periods of time in the vehicle for obvious reasons. But the upside is that you have your pets with you!


Then Rod showed up while Rachael was still my guest with what I considered to be my current van crush, a new Dodge Ram Promaster hightop that was his own custom design and build. How could I say no. This thing was cool.


It was like my first boyfriend meeting my current boyfriend. 



Rod is also a mid-Westerner from Michigan who downsized from a 42 foot 5th wheel with five slide outs to the Promaster van after his wife of many years passed away from cancer a year ago. 

Rod plays guitar and so after our Cincinnati Chili, we had a nice jam! I had to leave on my own trip early the next day, so I didn't get as much time as I'd have liked to play music with my guest. Maybe we'll meet again!


Rod and Laura 

Choochi checking out the action in the driveway


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Sunday, October 1, 2017

The Adventures of Asher and Journey

My most recent Boondocker's Welcome guests here in Norwalk are a family of four living in a 17 foot trailer! I remarked, if you guys still get along and love each other, you know you're doing something right.


Journey, Michele, Keith and Asher



And that's what matters for Dad Keith, a retired military vet and law enforcement officer from Los Vegas who decided that he wasn't seeing enough of his family. So he bought an RV and they started to travel the country with two three year old twins, Asher and Journey (Asher is the boy, Journey is the girl. Cool names!)

Journey

They've been all over the country, and Journey's favorite place is Leggo Land and Asher's was the bumper cars. I get it. It's all good.

Mom Michele is really amazing at how she organized her family in this small space. "Their toys go here" she pulled out a small drawer that would have held about 1/10th of most kids toys.

I remarked "You don't do much impulse buying for the kids do you because there's no place to put stuff."
"That's right," she said "and they hardly play with these, there's so many other things to explore out there."


Sounds pretty good to me. Less stuff you have, less stuff you want or need.
Even kids feel this way if their lives are rich in ways that matter!

Adding Connecticut to their map

The long range plan is to do something called "Space A Travel" that the military offers (this stands for "space available").  Apparently, Army vets can get on cargo planes and travel anywhere for free if there is room. So Keith, who says he can do something for about three years before he wants to do something else (they've been RVing for three and a half years), thinks that's what they'll be doing to start to travel internationally. 


Meanwhile, today, they're off to see the Statue of Liberty.

I can't think of a better way to bring up kids.

The Adventures of Asher and Journey

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